All my life, I've been a happy go lucky, peaceful type of person. As a child I never liked confrontations, fights or negative attitudes. I still don't. Matter of fact, I was usually the peace keeper always wanting everyone to get along. When I was younger, I remember my parents arguing in front of me. I reacted by not talking to them for days. No matter what they did, I wouldn't talk to them. It concerned them enough to change their ways
(a strategic move on my part) so they argued when I wasn't around.
I knew then that anger and negative actions were not suppose to be a part of my blueprint. My friends use to make fun of me saying that I was from another planet because I had so much patience. One day while doing some research, I stumbled upon a book called Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. I was truly overjoyed and relieved because the book connected a lot of dots for me. I had a better sense of clarity about why I am the way that I am. The book states that Emotional Intelligence is a trait not measured by an IQ test. A set of skills including listening, control of one's impulses, self-motivation, empathy and social competence in interpersonal relationships. The people who possess these skills are usually
outstanding performers and business leaders.
I am now a mature women with an exceptional personality and the same emotional skills. I call it "The Gift With A Price". The gift part of my emotional stability is that I have this uncanny ability to help, reason, calm and redirect those who do not posses the emotional skills to do so and they listen! This ability also helps me focus on and compartmentalize what the real issues are when dealing with an emotional uprising and not on the angry negative emotions being thrown around. The price for this gift is that it can be quite draining at times and I "must" have other emotional IQ individuals around that I can use as sounding boards.
Aristotle writes "Anyone can become angry-that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way-that is not easy".
My name is D'or. I am a successful entrepreneur, mother keynote speaker and business woman who is confident, principle centered and character based. I am a mature woman with an
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